Happiness is our true nature,
but we seek it where it cannot be found.
Happiness is not in the realm of pleasure/pain;
it is always present, but we miss it due to a misguided sense of self.
I am available to meet with you one-on-one, to debunk suffering, to experience inner space; and If there is an interest, to explore liberating concepts and their implications for practical daily living:
Mind is a precious tool,
but not a place to live in.
• Get things out of your head,
into a trusted system,
• Process/review frequently.
The End of Suffering
Suffering is the me-narrative
we add to our experiencing.
The sense of lack and separation:
• 10% misguided thinking,
• 90% muscle-memory.
“The greatest gift one can render Humanity
is to recognize one’s true nature.”
I spent 50+ years being more or less unhappy.
From early on I was attracted to spirituality and self-knowledge, but mostly in my head, misused as a pain-killer, without much critical thinking, without real human interchange.
At one point I was a Certified Massage Therapist,
which gave me deeper insights into our collective sickness,
the amazing maze of thinking and
the presence of biological intelligence.
Truth is simple, the seeker is complex
In 2020 I started meeting “strangers” online, which turned out to be priceless in regard to feeling myself and being touched by heart; to embrace the gift of life, to experience that we have much more in common than what separates us: GardenOfFriends.com.
I am available to meet with you one-on-one
to be practical, to celebrate, to share.
Take heart and send me an email:
*) and if there is resistance, shame, insecurity etc, to
maybe inquire on whose behalf limiting thoughts/feelings arise.
Artist and Counselor – M.A. Fine Art (Humboldt State University),
M.A. Social Science (Phillips Institute)
He also quickly grasped how I was hoping to use my new skills, and showed me additional techniques and shortcuts to facilitate in my goals.
Holger takes his time explaining things, is gracious about repeating things or explaining them in a different way, and is happy to tailor his instruction to an individual. I highly recommend him for one-on-one instruction.
Blind & Visually Impaired Center
When you’re not stressed, you’re better able to concentrate on the task at hand – here and now, which can lead to better quality work and faster completion times.
Stress can inhibit your ability to think creatively, but when you’re not stressed, you’re more likely to come up with innovative ideas and solutions.
Stress can have a detrimental effect on your physical and mental health, so reducing stress levels can lead to better overall health and well-being.
How to get out of suffering?
Most people in developed countries work hard merely to pay for the time to distract themselves.David Parrish
How to get out of the mess?
…Simple and playful, while at the same time dead-serious, because life is precious and irreplaceable.
Let’s start with some words… not as empty philosophy, not as pain-killers, but relevant, useful, practical.
I do not offer or promise quick-fixes. From experience I know that positive change happens when human beings meet with an open mind and heart.
Beyond eagerness, intention and information there is a nurturing and inspiring in-team-a-see, a fresh energy, always available.
I strongly dislike sales-calls!
To me it feels like betrayal when people try to lure me into spending money for things I don’t need.
Like you, I am using money to pay for things and services.
My regular hourly rate for commercial work is $60, in 15 minute increments.
Let’s see how we resonate…
Here and now!
I am offering you 20 minutes of my time, for free;
dedicated, uninterrupted, present.
Let’s see if I can be of service to you, to delightfully detect and relax friction in your day-to-day operations, to potentially clarify a subtle lifelong misunderstanding.
Say hello, send me a short email:
Life as Art,
Structure supports spontaneity.